Sunday, July 24, 2011

Ni Hao


So today we were in NYC, at Liberty Island - sitting under a tree eating a snack and trying not waste away in the 100+ heat.  Scott was somewhere climbing up Ms. Liberty's dress, and Christopher and I were doing the only sane thing, sitting very, very, still.  A worker at the park came by, someone who had it worse than us.  Dressed in dark, heavy clothing, gloves, and long sleeves.  Awful.  As he passed I smiled and said hello.  That was my first mistake.  He was of course friendly back, and came over and said "Ni Hao" to us.  The only reason I even now what "Ni Hao" means,  is because I know the line up on Nick Jr. from 7:30 a.m. till 5:30 p.m.  Kai lan and all of her furry creature friends are adorable, don't get me wrong.  Yet once again, we are mistaken for Chinese, and it just perplexes me.  After I gave him a blank stare, he asked directly if we were Chinese.  I said, "no" and of course he had to ask "well, are you Japanese?"  I wanted to say, "no, sorry sir, but thanks for playing - instead of the grand prize on Guess the Asian, you win a one way ticket to ignorantville."  But I was cordial, and replied, "We are Korean."  So, we travel hundreds of miles North, and sit on the island that symbolizes our Nation's basic values, and I still have to be subject to man's utter stupidity.
 

Monday, July 4, 2011

Lucky


I sometimes wonder what my life would be like if I was not adopted.  I imagine it would be very different.  I was abandoned on the steps of a building in Seoul Korea, and brought to an orphanage where tens if not hundreds of other babies sat, waiting for their chance to be chosen.  Why me? Why did my parents pick me? I guess I never got old enough to really be curious about it, and now I will never know for sure.  When I am asked "where are you from", I get to say "NY" without skipping a beat.  For that, I feel lucky.    Happy 235th Birthday USA - thank you for giving me hope.